I was born in a large city in the Midlands but at the age of six, after the death of my father and re-marriage of my mother, we moved to a small Derbyshire village where I stayed, apart from a couple of years living in Nottingham, for over twenty years. When Mum and I moved to the village I gained a step-father, a step-sister and a new family of uncles, aunts and cousins.
Earlier last week we went over to Chesterfield to visit my sister and she wanted to go to the village, just a few miles away, where she was born and where we both grew up. We wandered around the old childhood haunts taking photographs.
Visiting the church where we were both married and where our parents (except for my father) are buried. In my sister's case there are two or three generations of family burials in the churchyard.
We remembered when we could play in the street with hardly any cars to bother us. We used to walk down this street from top to bottom twice a day to school and back. Past open fields, market gardens, farm houses and little stone cottages on our way down past the church, the shop and post office and the pub on our way to school.
The building on the left was the shop and post office, now just a private home. We children would sometimes call at the shop after school to buy sweets like aniseed balls, gob stoppers, sherbet dabs or penny chews.
The school is twice the size it was when we were there. It looks as if a couple of extensions have been added and there is a fenced off garden area. The grass in front is the school field. We used to play in here on warm summer days, making daisy chains, testing each other with buttercups under the chin to see if we liked butter. We played 'cowboys and indians' (apologies if that is now non PC but that is what it was called and I have no other name for it), 'tiggy off the ground', 'tag' and 'tin-can a-lurky' (not sure how to spell that!). In the playground itself on colder days we had some climbing frames but what the girls liked best was skipping - running in and out of the circling rope and chanting verses which I can't remember but I do remember how we worked out who was 'on' when we played 'tag' or 'tiggy' by standing in a ring holding out both fists and taping them saying 'one potato, two potato' etc or 'ittle, ottle, chocolate bottle, ittle ottle out' The one with a fist left at the end was 'on' and had to run after and touch or tag the others until all were caught.
Both my sister and I remember an idyllic childhood of being allowed to play down the lanes and in the woods, by the brook and near the sheep dip. Most weeks we would be lined up in twos to attend a church service or to go on a 'nature walk' after which we'd come back to school and place all our findings on the nature table, usually in jam jars. We used to sprout beans in jam jars with damp blotting paper in them on the table too.
It was a lovely warm day when we had our wander around so memories of spring in the village came pouring back, the primroses, violets, 'egg and bacon', bluebells and daffodils in the woods. The fields full of cowslips with peewits (Lapwings) flying overhead and the call of the cuckoo, heard often in those days and rarely heard now. Is there any wonder I have such happy memories of Spring in the village?
It's lovely to relive your childhood through visits and memories. It sounds like a very happy one there.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely post.I can remember all those things.My brother and I often talk about when we were growing up and the freedom we had.In the last year of primary school we were allowed to play across the road in a small copse that had a stream running through it,totally unsupervised.That wouldn't happen today!
ReplyDeleteHow lovely to have these happy memories to light up your life. The things that happen in childhood make such an impact. My childhood was spent in lots of different places but I remember how pleased I was to get back to England to the family home and everything would seem as if it had not changed at all!
ReplyDeleteThats really lovely Rosie. My mum still lives in the village where I grew up, but it has grown beyond recognition and is almost reaching the next village now. I too have lovely memories just like yours. My favourite lessons were all outside and collecting items for the nature table my absolute fave. xxx
ReplyDeleteIt sounds idyllic, your childhood sounds similar to mine except that I didn't live in a village. I recognize all the games you played and remember the freedom we all had then. I wouldn't swap my childhood for that of todays children for anything. We were a fortunate generation I think.
ReplyDeleteWonderful memories. I think I had quite a 'protected' childhood but I do remember river jumping with friends in a local park and going out independently from my parents. x
ReplyDeleteWonderful memories. I think I had quite a 'protected' childhood but I do remember river jumping with friends in a local park and going out independently from my parents. x
ReplyDeleteHow lovely! My childhood is related to flowers and the garden too!
ReplyDeleteHave a good week Rosie!
xxx
Sounds wonderful, happy days.
ReplyDeleteI grew up on the edge of Derby but with lots of family in the Derbyshire countryside. So much of what you describe is familiar to me. They are wonderful memories.
ReplyDeleteOh it looks lovely, we are going to Chesterfield this weekend for a family party, hope the weather holds.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful place to grow up. I remember freedom growing up and being out in the streets or down the local fields playing by the water. Suzy x
ReplyDeleteLovely memories. There was just a hint in some of my childhood memories that touched yours.
ReplyDeleteWhat fun it must have been to grow up in this village. I grew up moving constantly so never knew one place as home. What a grounding feeling this must give you! And how wonderful to be able to go back and see these places.
ReplyDeleteHugs from Holland ~
Heidi